Why get separated?

Why get separated?

Have I asked myself this question? Yes of course I have.  And now I am asking; Why get divorced?  It is not a rhetorical question.  These are important questions to ask ourselves, remind ourselves and be living a mindful life.  I am very conscious that my married life was one of failed expectations.  My expectations were not met.  What were my expectations?  This is why we ask the questions: why get separated?  I know why I am separated.  When we parent alone, when we are separated or divorced, it can be lonely, isolated, often hopeless at times.  This is a key time to remember why am I separated? This catapults the reminder list of gratitude’s, the list of what I am thankful for parenting alone.  Parenting alone takes work, not just logistically but it is a complete mindset shift (upcoming blog).  My next step though is why get divorced? (next blog)