Why get divorced?

Why get divorced? 

It is so expensive, so exhausting after the separation.  The conflict is not gone but it has reduced and I just want to move on with my lie and not stir up all the drama again.  That is why I am getting divorced.  We all have our own choices to make, we are responsible for our own lives.  I do not want the drama down the road, I want it finalized.  Of course he does not want a divorce or does he.  One very important fact is we are not mind readers, I could blog and speculate what he does and doesn’t want about the divorce but this will yield no results and waste my energy.  So we make a commitment to ourselves to pursue our divorce for our means and ends goals.  Divorce is expensive, well No actually for me it is not.  Since I met family separation services, I refer my clients to them.  I trust them with my clients and so I doubly trust them with my case.  They charge a flat rate, they work behind the scenes and make time to inform me, challenge me, assure me.