Why get divorced?
It is so expensive, so exhausting after the separation. The conflict is not gone but it has reduced and I just want to move on with my lie and not stir up all the drama again. That is why I am getting divorced. We all have our own choices to make, we are responsible for our own lives. I do not want the drama down the road, I want it finalized. Of course he does not want a divorce or does he. One very important fact is we are not mind readers, I could blog and speculate what he does and doesn’t want about the divorce but this will yield no results and waste my energy. So we make a commitment to ourselves to pursue our divorce for our means and ends goals. Divorce is expensive, well No actually for me it is not. Since I met family separation services, I refer my clients to them. I trust them with my clients and so I doubly trust them with my case. They charge a flat rate, they work behind the scenes and make time to inform me, challenge me, assure me.